Debby | Patient
Living with multiple myeloma since 2009
My husband Harry and I were ready for retirement—we sold our home and a majority of our belongings and were ready to move to a warmer climate and build our dream home. Before leaving, I went to have my yearly physical with my doctor. A few days later, I received a phone call from my doctor, who asked me to come back in for blood work and more diagnostic testing. She also asked me if I was tired, and I said yes, I’m tired—everyone is tired—because you’re running around and doing a thousand things over the course of the day. That’s just a part of life.
A week later I got a bone marrow biopsy, which confirmed that I had multiple myeloma, and I was immediately put on a combination therapy.
My family was shocked, especially my daughter, who requested that I get a second opinion. I was impressed about the vast knowledge this doctor had about multiple myeloma. He restaged my disease and modified my treatment accordingly.
Harry and I moved back to our original town so I could be closer to my doctors. I was scheduled for a stem cell transplant; however, my daughter was getting married that month, and I knew that I wanted to be there, so I held off on the treatment until afterwards. Honestly, I’m very grateful I did, and I was able to be at the wedding. This disease really changes your perspective on what is important.
My multiple myeloma came back, and I started another treatment, which didn’t last long. It was becoming obvious that I was going to be a patient who was resistant to therapy. I am constantly looking for the next product, just in case. I am truly thankful that there is ongoing research for patients like me!
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